Back to school means back to bullying for many: Here’s what to know
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Back to school means back to bullying for many: Here’s what to knowDreamstime
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Back to school means back to bullying for many: Here’s what to knowDreamstime/TNS
Be on the lookout for changes in eating habits, such as suddenly skipping meals or binge eating. Kids may come home from school hungry because they didn't eat lunch from stress or social pressure.
Dreamstime/TNSBe on the lookout for changes in eating habits, such as suddenly skipping meals or binge eating. Kids may come home from school hungry because they didn't eat lunch from stress or social pressure.
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Back to school means back to bullying for many: Here’s what to knowDreamstime/TNS
If a previously studious, interested student starts showing loss of interest in schoolwork or stops wanting to go to school, or if their grades begin declining noticeably, that could be a sign of bullying. Loss of focus is a common result of worry or anxiety.
Dreamstime/TNSIf a previously studious, interested student starts showing loss of interest in schoolwork or stops wanting to go to school, or if their grades begin declining noticeably, that could be a sign of bullying. Loss of focus is a common result of worry or anxiety.
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Back to school means back to bullying for many: Here’s what to knowDreamstime/TNS
Self-destructive behaviors such as running away from home, harming themselves, or talking about suicide should always be taken seriously. Even if the underlying cause is something other than bullying, if you notice these signs seek help. If someone is thinking of suicide, contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline online or at 1-800-273-TALK (8255).
Dreamstime/TNSSelf-destructive behaviors such as running away from home, harming themselves, or talking about suicide should always be taken seriously. Even if the underlying cause is something other than bullying, if you notice these signs seek help. If someone is thinking of suicide, contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline online or at 1-800-273-TALK (8255).
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Back to school means back to bullying for many: Here’s what to knowDreamstime/TNS
This may be one of the more difficult indicators to notice since it's more internal, but if your child is showing a drop in self esteem or feelings of helplessness in what they say or how they act, it could be a sign that something — or someone — is troubling them.
Dreamstime/TNSThis may be one of the more difficult indicators to notice since it's more internal, but if your child is showing a drop in self esteem or feelings of helplessness in what they say or how they act, it could be a sign that something — or someone — is troubling them.
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Back to school means back to bullying for many: Here’s what to knowDreamstime/TNS
Frequent headaches or stomach aches are be one of the body's ways of exhibiting unusual amounts of stress. Also, frequently feeling sick (or faking sickness) to avoid going to school or social situations is another signal that something is wrong.
Dreamstime/TNSFrequent headaches or stomach aches are be one of the body's ways of exhibiting unusual amounts of stress. Also, frequently feeling sick (or faking sickness) to avoid going to school or social situations is another signal that something is wrong.
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Back to school means back to bullying for many: Here’s what to knowDreamstime/TNS
If your child comes home with unexplained injuries, scrapes or bruises, it could be due to bullying.
Dreamstime/TNSIf your child comes home with unexplained injuries, scrapes or bruises, it could be due to bullying.
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Back to school means back to bullying for many: Here’s what to knowDreamstime/TNS
There are many different forms of bullying, from verbal to social to physical to a mix of each. Items like books, electronics, jewelry, or clothing that go mysteriously missing — or are damaged or destroyed — are an indicator that something is going on.
Dreamstime/TNSThere are many different forms of bullying, from verbal to social to physical to a mix of each. Items like books, electronics, jewelry, or clothing that go mysteriously missing — or are damaged or destroyed — are an indicator that something is going on.
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Like illness or stomach aches, difficulty sleeping and/or persistent nightmares is a clue that something has shifted in the victim's life and should be addressed.
Dreamstime/TNSLike illness or stomach aches, difficulty sleeping and/or persistent nightmares is a clue that something has shifted in the victim's life and should be addressed.
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Back to school means back to bullying for many: Here’s what to knowShao-chun Wang/Dreamstime/TNS
Another common marker of bullying is the victim suddenly spending much more time alone. Avoiding social events like games or turning down opportunities to hang out with friends when those weren't behaviors before is a clue that it's time to talk.
Shao-chun Wang/Dreamstime/TNSAnother common marker of bullying is the victim suddenly spending much more time alone. Avoiding social events like games or turning down opportunities to hang out with friends when those weren't behaviors before is a clue that it's time to talk.
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Back to school means back to bullying for many: Here’s what to knowDreamstime/TNS
There are many reasons why a child might not tell an adult they're being bullied — feelings of helplessness and isolation, fear of backlash, not wanting to feel helpless or rejected by their peers. If you can, first talk to the child. If they're being bullied in school, reach out to a teacher, or the principal or school counselor. A local counselor or mental health services can also be contacted if someone is acting differently than normal, like always seeming sad or anxious or unable to complete standard tasks. If there is immediate risk of harm, call 911.
Dreamstime/TNSThere are many reasons why a child might not tell an adult they're being bullied — feelings of helplessness and isolation, fear of backlash, not wanting to feel helpless or rejected by their peers. If you can, first talk to the child. If they're being bullied in school, reach out to a teacher, or the principal or school counselor. A local counselor or mental health services can also be contacted if someone is acting differently than normal, like always seeming sad or anxious or unable to complete standard tasks. If there is immediate risk of harm, call 911.
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Back to school means back to bullying for many: Here’s what to knowDreamstime/TNS
This can include physical or verbal fights.
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Back to school means back to bullying for many: Here’s what to knowDreamstime/TNS
If your child's friends seem to be bullying people, your child might be doing so as well.
Dreamstime/TNSIf your child's friends seem to be bullying people, your child might be doing so as well.
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Back to school means back to bullying for many: Here’s what to knowEvgeniy Gostuchin
Just how suddenly having lost or destroyed possessions can be an indication your child is being bullied, your child having more money or things can mean they acquired it through bullying.
Evgeniy GostuchinJust how suddenly having lost or destroyed possessions can be an indication your child is being bullied, your child having more money or things can mean they acquired it through bullying.
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Back to school means back to bullying for many: Here’s what to knowDreamstime/TNS
Bullies are often sent to the principal's office or get detention more often.
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Back to school means back to bullying for many: Here’s what to knowDreamstime/TNS
This can include blaming others for their problems, but not being willing to take responsibility for their actions is another sign of bullying.
Dreamstime/TNSThis can include blaming others for their problems, but not being willing to take responsibility for their actions is another sign of bullying.
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Back to school means back to bullying for many: Here’s what to knowDreamstime/TNS
It's normal to think about how others perceive you, but being overly competitive and worrying about their reputation or popularity can be another sign of bullying.
Dreamstime/TNSIt's normal to think about how others perceive you, but being overly competitive and worrying about their reputation or popularity can be another sign of bullying.
For many families, the start of school is a busy, exciting time of year. For some students, though, returning to school also means bullying — and the feelings of anxiety, sadness and loneliness that bullying can cause.
Up to 20% of students 12-18 experience bullying in the U.S. each year, according to StopBullying.gov, which is a resource managed by the Department of Health and Human Resources dedicated to providing information about bullying.
Bullying is a form of aggression, where one or more children repeatedly and intentionally intimidate, harass or harm a victim perceived to be less powerful. While bullying once was considered a childhood rite of passage, it is now recognized as a serious problem that can affect a child’s physical health, emotional well-being and academic performance.
Bullying can take many forms, including:
• Physical: This type of bullying includes hitting, tripping and kicking, as well as destruction of a child’s property.
• Verbal: Verbal bullying includes teasing, name-calling, taunting and making inappropriate sexual comments.
• Psychological or social: This type of bullying involves spreading rumors about a child, embarrassing him or her in public, or excluding him or her from a group.
• Electronic: Cyberbullying involves threatening or harming others through the use of email, websites, social media platforms, text messages, or videos and photos shared electronically.
Talking about bullying before it happens sets the stage for preventing and addressing the problem. If your child is being bullied, he or she might remain quiet out of fear, shame or embarrassment. Warning signs may be vague, and some may mimic mental health issues. If you suspect or know your child is being bullied, it’s important to be proactive.