Millennials are in peak nesting mode. We want the outdoor space many apartments lack, or the room to grow that a starter house doesn’t offer. There’s just a not-so-small problem.
(Gestures broadly at everything.)
The median existing home sales price of U.S. homes was $389,500 in August, according to the National Association of Realtors. That’s a 7.7% increase from August 2021. The average interest rate for 30-year fixed-rate mortgages topped 6% as of Sept. 15 this year, according to Freddie Mac. Compare that with an average rate of 2.86% just one year prior — that’s a 110% increase.
It can be hard to compete when an open house feels like a cage match. It’s enough to make anyone retreat to a rental for a while. “We’re seeing that those who were thinking of buying a home just aren’t interested anymore,” says Natalie Slagle, a certified financial planner and founding partner of Rochester, Minnesota-based Fyooz Financial Planning. “People aren’t as willing to make big financial moves when it feels like there’s uncertainty.”
Though you may feel stuck right now, you don’t have to be forever. Here’s what to do in the meantime.
REEVALUATE YOUR CURRENT SITUATION
In slowing down your house hunt, you’ve given yourself the gift of extra time. You can reassess what’s realistic for you. Over the next year or so, your life may change a lot, meaning your list of must-haves for a home might need a few edits.
When Jason Fletcher was looking to buy his first home in Orange County, California, in 2019, he was single. At the time, he didn’t find The One, real estate-wise, but it wasn’t long before he met his now-wife. They’re currently expecting their second child and still hoping to swap their rental for a home they own, one quite different from what Fletcher searched for three years ago.
However, their search is coming up short. “I’d say right now, at least in our area, we have not seen inventory increase a whole lot,” he says. “That indicates to me that people are comfortable with the interest rates they have and they aren’t selling.”
Amanda Astey moved to San Francisco with her husband seven years ago. They considered buying a home after living in the city for two years, but backed out after they were unable to find anything in their price range at the time. Now, they’ve advanced in their careers and are open to resuming the search. “Even with that, we’ve been pretty discouraged,” she says.
They’re open to living farther from the city — and even to leaving the state in search of more space for the money. “We’ve had a huge exodus of friends to Portland. A whole bunch of friends have gone to Denver,” she says. “It’s seeming more and more likely that another city would be our best option.”

Nam Y. Huh
An advertising sign for building land stands in front of a new home construction site in Northbrook, Ill., Wednesday, Sept. 21, 2022. Elevated home prices, rising interest rates and steep competition are interrupting millennials’ plans to get that quintessential piece of the American dream — their first home, or an upgrade from a small starter home. If you were planning on buying a home over the past year or so, you may have started the process by getting a mortgage preapproval and working with a real estate agent, only to cancel it all and stay put. (AP Photo/Nam Y. Huh)
BECOME AN EVEN MORE ATTRACTIVE BUYER
If your budget and mortgage preapproval were so-so this time around, take the next few months to beef up your finances so you’re in a stronger position later on.
One place to start is with discretionary spending. If you can cut back, and possibly increase your income with a promotion, job or freelance work, you can add to your savings and be prepared to make a larger down payment. You may also be able to increase your overall budget for a home. Fletcher and his wife cut back on buying new clothes and are keeping their paid-off cars longer to avoid car loans. “At this point, we’re trying to make more money and get promotions,” he says.
Paying down existing debts can help, too, as that will lower your debt-to-income ratio.
A higher credit score can help you qualify for better mortgage terms, hopefully ensuring you can get as low an interest rate as possible. If you already have excellent credit, keep it there by paying your bills on time every month. Late payments can ding your credit, and you’ve already worked hard to get where you are. If your credit score is lower, on-time payments can still help you, as can limiting what other loans or credit cards you apply for in the months before you apply for a mortgage.
ADJUST YOUR INTEREST RATE EXPECTATIONS
Sometimes your life plans don’t line up with economic conditions, so you may not be able to wait indefinitely for interest rates to go down (assuming they will, which is never guaranteed). In that case, you’ll have to stomach higher monthly payments, and if interest rates go lower in the future, you can refinance. You may have to make some concessions to accommodate a more expensive loan, like reducing your overall budget or widening your search over a larger area.
Phil Lawson, a real estate agent in Richmond, Virginia, notes that even now, interest rates are low, historically. When he bought his first home 20 years ago, he paid 7.6%.
“This is a stupid cliche, and I’ve said it over the years,” he says. “Marry the house but date the rate.”
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After slowing down at the beginning of the pandemic, the construction industry has bounced back, spurred on by the housing market boom.
Construction employment reached 7.7 million in August, surpassing pre-COVID levels, and nearly matching peak construction employment in 2006. With the signing of the Infrastructure Investment and Jobs Act into law, the long-term outlook for the construction industry is looking upbeat as well. This legislation provides billions of dollars in funding for infrastructure projects and creates millions of jobs over the next decade, many in construction.
However, as the construction sector rapidly recovered from its pandemic-induced decline, supply chain disruptions proved persistent and inflation tightly squeezed household budgets. Although average hourly earnings for all private-sector workers have increased by 5.2% from 2021, inflation hit a 40-year high in June with prices up 9.1% over the past 12 months. Inflation has moderated slightly since, but is still at elevated levels.
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After slowing down at the beginning of the pandemic, the construction industry has bounced back, spurred on by the housing market boom.
Construction employment reached 7.7 million in August, surpassing pre-COVID levels, and nearly matching peak construction employment in 2006. With the signing of the Infrastructure Investment and Jobs Act into law, the long-term outlook for the construction industry is looking upbeat as well. This legislation provides billions of dollars in funding for infrastructure projects and creates millions of jobs over the next decade, many in construction.
However, as the construction sector rapidly recovered from its pandemic-induced decline, supply chain disruptions proved persistent and inflation tightly squeezed household budgets. Although average hourly earnings for all private-sector workers have increased by 5.2% from 2021, inflation hit a 40-year high in June with prices up 9.1% over the past 12 months. Inflation has moderated slightly since, but is still at elevated levels.
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Even with the strong job market, construction wages have failed to keep pace with inflation. The average weekly wage for full-time construction workers was $887 in April, after adjusting for inflation. This represents a 12% drop from October 2020 when real wages peaked at $1,012.
Even with the strong job market, construction wages have failed to keep pace with inflation. The average weekly wage for full-time construction workers was $887 in April, after adjusting for inflation. This represents a 12% drop from October 2020 when real wages peaked at $1,012.
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To make things worse, the housing market has been red-hot for the past two-plus years. Increased demand for homes due to record-low mortgage rates, remote work, and stimulus payments coupled with low inventory have caused home prices to skyrocket. The median home sales price was over $440,000 in the second quarter of 2022, up 36% from 2020. Due to actions by the Federal Reserve to combat inflation, mortgage interest rates have risen substantially in recent months from the lows seen in the earlier days of the pandemic. Higher interest rates have caused monthly mortgage payments to climb, and now the monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home is nearly $2,000, an amount difficult for many Americans to afford.
To make things worse, the housing market has been red-hot for the past two-plus years. Increased demand for homes due to record-low mortgage rates, remote work, and stimulus payments coupled with low inventory have caused home prices to skyrocket. The median home sales price was over $440,000 in the second quarter of 2022, up 36% from 2020. Due to actions by the Federal Reserve to combat inflation, mortgage interest rates have risen substantially in recent months from the lows seen in the earlier days of the pandemic. Higher interest rates have caused monthly mortgage payments to climb, and now the monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home is nearly $2,000, an amount difficult for many Americans to afford.
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Rising home prices in many cities mean that the workers who build homes often cannot afford to buy them. Indeed, California construction workers would have to work 91 hours per week to afford a median-priced home, more than twice a typical 40-hour work week. This calculation assumes that a worker would spend no more than 30% of their income on housing, a common home affordability rule. Construction workers in Hawaii (85 hours), Colorado (84 hours), and Utah (84 hours) would also have to work over double the standard work week to manage the monthly mortgage payments for a median-priced home. At the other end of the spectrum, in West Virginia home prices are affordable enough—and construction median wages are high enough—that a construction worker would only have to work 21 weekly hours to be able to afford a median-priced home.
Similar trends hold at the metro level, where perhaps not surprisingly, metros in California stand out as being some of the most unaffordable in the country. Even though locations like San Francisco and San Jose offer above-average wages, homes there are so much more expensive than average that the typical construction worker would need to work the equivalent of at least three full-time jobs to afford one. At the opposite end of the spectrum, locations in the Midwest like St. Louis and Chicago offer well-paying construction jobs and below-average home prices, making these locations highly affordable for a person in the trades.
To find the metropolitan areas where construction workers would have to work the longest hours to afford a home, researchers at Construction Coverage analyzed the latest data from the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, the U.S. Census Bureau, and Zillow. The researchers ranked metro areas according to the weekly hours needed to afford a median-priced home. Researchers also calculated the median hourly wage for construction workers, median home price, the monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home, and the overall homeownership rate.
Here are the U.S. metropolitan areas where construction workers would have to work the longest hours to afford a home.
Rising home prices in many cities mean that the workers who build homes often cannot afford to buy them. Indeed, California construction workers would have to work 91 hours per week to afford a median-priced home, more than twice a typical 40-hour work week. This calculation assumes that a worker would spend no more than 30% of their income on housing, a common home affordability rule. Construction workers in Hawaii (85 hours), Colorado (84 hours), and Utah (84 hours) would also have to work over double the standard work week to manage the monthly mortgage payments for a median-priced home. At the other end of the spectrum, in West Virginia home prices are affordable enough—and construction median wages are high enough—that a construction worker would only have to work 21 weekly hours to be able to afford a median-priced home.
Similar trends hold at the metro level, where perhaps not surprisingly, metros in California stand out as being some of the most unaffordable in the country. Even though locations like San Francisco and San Jose offer above-average wages, homes there are so much more expensive than average that the typical construction worker would need to work the equivalent of at least three full-time jobs to afford one. At the opposite end of the spectrum, locations in the Midwest like St. Louis and Chicago offer well-paying construction jobs and below-average home prices, making these locations highly affordable for a person in the trades.
To find the metropolitan areas where construction workers would have to work the longest hours to afford a home, researchers at Construction Coverage analyzed the latest data from the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, the U.S. Census Bureau, and Zillow. The researchers ranked metro areas according to the weekly hours needed to afford a median-priced home. Researchers also calculated the median hourly wage for construction workers, median home price, the monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home, and the overall homeownership rate.
Here are the U.S. metropolitan areas where construction workers would have to work the longest hours to afford a home.
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You nixed your homebuying plan. What now?
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- Weekly hours needed to afford a median-priced home: 70
- Median hourly wage: $22.01
- Median home price: $457,360
- Monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home: $1,993
- Overall homeownership rate: 65.6%
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- Weekly hours needed to afford a median-priced home: 70
- Median hourly wage: $22.01
- Median home price: $457,360
- Monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home: $1,993
- Overall homeownership rate: 65.6%
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- Weekly hours needed to afford a median-priced home: 70
- Median hourly wage: $23.02
- Median home price: $478,985
- Monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home: $2,088
- Overall homeownership rate: 64.4%
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- Weekly hours needed to afford a median-priced home: 70
- Median hourly wage: $23.02
- Median home price: $478,985
- Monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home: $2,088
- Overall homeownership rate: 64.4%
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- Weekly hours needed to afford a median-priced home: 71
- Median hourly wage: $18.82
- Median home price: $399,709
- Monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home: $1,742
- Overall homeownership rate: 61.9%
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- Weekly hours needed to afford a median-priced home: 71
- Median hourly wage: $18.82
- Median home price: $399,709
- Monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home: $1,742
- Overall homeownership rate: 61.9%
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- Weekly hours needed to afford a median-priced home: 71
- Median hourly wage: $27.82
- Median home price: $585,817
- Monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home: $2,553
- Overall homeownership rate: 64.1%
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- Weekly hours needed to afford a median-priced home: 71
- Median hourly wage: $27.82
- Median home price: $585,817
- Monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home: $2,553
- Overall homeownership rate: 64.1%
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- Weekly hours needed to afford a median-priced home: 71
- Median hourly wage: $29.23
- Median home price: $615,712
- Monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home: $2,683
- Overall homeownership rate: 61.2%
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- Weekly hours needed to afford a median-priced home: 71
- Median hourly wage: $29.23
- Median home price: $615,712
- Monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home: $2,683
- Overall homeownership rate: 61.2%
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- Weekly hours needed to afford a median-priced home: 73
- Median hourly wage: $30.22
- Median home price: $661,141
- Monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home: $2,881
- Overall homeownership rate: 61.7%
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- Weekly hours needed to afford a median-priced home: 73
- Median hourly wage: $30.22
- Median home price: $661,141
- Monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home: $2,881
- Overall homeownership rate: 61.7%
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- Weekly hours needed to afford a median-priced home: 76
- Median hourly wage: $24.63
- Median home price: $555,266
- Monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home: $2,420
- Overall homeownership rate: 63.9%
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- Weekly hours needed to afford a median-priced home: 76
- Median hourly wage: $24.63
- Median home price: $555,266
- Monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home: $2,420
- Overall homeownership rate: 63.9%
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- Weekly hours needed to afford a median-priced home: 79
- Median hourly wage: $33.18
- Median home price: $781,617
- Monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home: $3,407
- Overall homeownership rate: 60.2%
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- Weekly hours needed to afford a median-priced home: 79
- Median hourly wage: $33.18
- Median home price: $781,617
- Monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home: $3,407
- Overall homeownership rate: 60.2%
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- Weekly hours needed to afford a median-priced home: 87
- Median hourly wage: $23.29
- Median home price: $606,689
- Monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home: $2,644
- Overall homeownership rate: 68.2%
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- Weekly hours needed to afford a median-priced home: 87
- Median hourly wage: $23.29
- Median home price: $606,689
- Monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home: $2,644
- Overall homeownership rate: 68.2%
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- Weekly hours needed to afford a median-priced home: 88
- Median hourly wage: $22.20
- Median home price: $582,073
- Monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home: $2,537
- Overall homeownership rate: 58.6%
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- Weekly hours needed to afford a median-priced home: 88
- Median hourly wage: $22.20
- Median home price: $582,073
- Monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home: $2,537
- Overall homeownership rate: 58.6%
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- Weekly hours needed to afford a median-priced home: 89
- Median hourly wage: $24.00
- Median home price: $638,061
- Monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home: $2,781
- Overall homeownership rate: 64.8%
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- Weekly hours needed to afford a median-priced home: 89
- Median hourly wage: $24.00
- Median home price: $638,061
- Monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home: $2,781
- Overall homeownership rate: 64.8%
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- Weekly hours needed to afford a median-priced home: 105
- Median hourly wage: $29.02
- Median home price: $907,871
- Monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home: $3,957
- Overall homeownership rate: 53.9%
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- Weekly hours needed to afford a median-priced home: 105
- Median hourly wage: $29.02
- Median home price: $907,871
- Monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home: $3,957
- Overall homeownership rate: 53.9%
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- Weekly hours needed to afford a median-priced home: 108
- Median hourly wage: $29.08
- Median home price: $933,282
- Monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home: $4,068
- Overall homeownership rate: 48.7%
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- Weekly hours needed to afford a median-priced home: 108
- Median hourly wage: $29.08
- Median home price: $933,282
- Monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home: $4,068
- Overall homeownership rate: 48.7%
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- Weekly hours needed to afford a median-priced home: 139
- Median hourly wage: $35.14
- Median home price: $1,458,909
- Monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home: $6,358
- Overall homeownership rate: 55.0%
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- Weekly hours needed to afford a median-priced home: 139
- Median hourly wage: $35.14
- Median home price: $1,458,909
- Monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home: $6,358
- Overall homeownership rate: 55.0%
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- Weekly hours needed to afford a median-priced home: 152
- Median hourly wage: $35.70
- Median home price: $1,619,785
- Monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home: $7,060
- Overall homeownership rate: 56.6%
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- Weekly hours needed to afford a median-priced home: 152
- Median hourly wage: $35.70
- Median home price: $1,619,785
- Monthly mortgage payment for a median-priced home: $7,060
- Overall homeownership rate: 56.6%